Wednesday, October 7, 2009

fool me twice...

so now, the husband is back home. we are going through couple's therapy. $30/week, not bad but, the biggest waste of money in my life - ever! well, besides for a very expensive dress i bought and have never worn. anyway, we are doing couple's thearpy and everything is going well during this time period. our 10th month comes up and our therapist is giving us the boot at this point. she believes we now have the "tools" to work on our marriage and to work out problems that may arise. nothing could have prepared me for what was going to take place over the next few months.

about after therapy ended, i noticed the husband reverting back to being... weird. and by weird i mean, sneaky, taking prescription pills again, hiding things, etc... so, once again, my intuition kicked in. i started searching on the "social networking sites". that's when the first of many red flags were raised. i had a friend go on facebook (i forgot to mention, by this point neither of us was supposed to have a facebook or myspace account - trust factor) and search his email. sure enough, up popped "ray ray jones" under his email. the husband's name is not ray ray jones, however, the wayan's brother's name is on the scary movie series. well, this ray ray jones only had one friend, no pictures and was from our part of the world. ray ray jone's friend was a girl named kelly lee. i was furious at this point but wanted to confront him in a calm, relaxing manner. so, i did. his response? he had no idea who that was or how it got up there... blah, blah, blah but by the next day, it was gone.

that was it. i knew he was out and about doing whatever it is that he does. so, i began devising my plan of action to build a case against him and leave. right as i was working on it, he had a seizure. second one in 2 years. ugh, i thought! why now?


  1. Okay. This is unbelievable....and (obviously) an ongoing story. Sorry if I didn't quite get that.

    He's making me MAD. Seizure or not.


  2. I'm so sorry that you're going through such an icky situation like this. And I know it makes sense to want to stay with and care for the ones we love when bad things happen to them, but remember to take care of yourself as well!! If you're in a bad situation right now, and it feels like a change needs to be made, try to be strong about it!!

    **best wishes**

  3. Pretty Little Worlds comment pretty much took the words right out of my mouth.

    You will get through this and come out the winner. Stick to your guns and take care of you.

    amy xxx